Unmasking Love in the Matrix: Real Love vs. Spiritual Setups

As we awaken to the deeper truths of this world, one of the most challenging and dangerous areas to navigate is love. Love in the matrix has been heavily distorted, filled with traps, false connections, and spiritual counterfeits. The enemy loves to send false relationships into the lives of the awakened, designed to distract, destroy, and manipulate you off your path. These setups may seem like genuine answers to your longing for love but are often intentionally placed to derail your purpose and delay your destiny.

In a world where the percentage of truly "real" people is low—and where those rare souls are often scattered beyond your immediate environment—the risk of encountering a counterfeit or an NPC (non-playable character) is extremely high. If you are being targeted, you must be especially vigilant. The deeper you awaken, the more these counterfeit relationships will be sent to you with intensity and precision. They are spiritual traps.

The Enemy Studies Your Weaknesses
You may notice a pattern: until you shift your frequency, you keep meeting the same type of toxic individuals. It is not coincidence. The enemy knows that most people select partners based on lust, attraction, or unresolved wounds, rather than holy discernment. The enemy will use your "type" against you. Your attractions, if unexamined, can be weaponized to your destruction.

Choosing whom you form covenants with—whether through marriage or intimacy—is one of the most important spiritual decisions you will ever make. This isn’t just about marriage on paper. Every act of physical intimacy is a spiritual covenant. It is a binding on the soul level. Despite the world glorifying casual sex, it is spiritual death. Every person you sleep with leaves an imprint on your soul. You pick up every demon they carry, and in turn, you also take on the spiritual baggage of everyone they have ever been intimate with.

The Bed as an Altar
Sexual intimacy is not just a physical act; it is spiritual. The bed becomes an altar where covenants are sealed with blood, secretions, and energy exchange. To sleep with someone in your dreams also demands immediate rebuke—it signifies spiritual soul ties with marine entities and dark spirits that work to bind and hinder your progress. Every exchange of bodily fluids is a ritual in the spirit realm. It has consequences.

There are men who deliberately seek to extract fluids from women during intimacy as a way of spiritually sealing their fates. Some will even intentionally try to cause bleeding to amplify the spiritual binding. There are men who impregnate women for the sole purpose of trapping them—keeping them distracted, tied down, and stuck in loops, unable to progress. Likewise, there are women who keep men financially, emotionally, or spiritually unstable and tied for their own benefit.

The Devastation of Sleeping with the Enemy
The worst discovery you can make is realizing you are sleeping with the enemy. I speak from personal experience.

I once encountered a narcissist who mirrored many of the patterns I had begun to recognize but ignored. Physically, he was exactly my type. I met this man on a night when there was a big buzz that day on social media that the moon was in Virgo. Strangely, he shared the exact same birthday as me, just three years older but we were also both virgos. Spiritually, these seemed like signs of alignment on the surface, it masked a deeper, harmful agenda from the enemy.

Almost immediately, I noticed things were off. His comments and demeanor reflected deep narcissistic traits. On one occasion during intimacy, he tried to push himself into me at a precise angle to intentionally hit my cervix, causing me to bleed—even though I was not on my period. Afterwards, he tried to manipulate me, gaslighting and claiming that I must have known I had my period, trying to embarrass me and make me doubt myself.

It wasn’t just that incident. I remember trying to discuss work issues with him once, it irritated him because I also made more money and not only did he completely dismiss it, but something about his energy made me feel spiritually dirty. Maybe it was the blackness in his eyes, or the way his facial expressions would almost contort in an inhuman way, but there was a deep sense of filth and darkness that radiated from him.

Like many narcissists, he was extremely insecure under the surface and needed constant ego validation. Over time, I realized he was setting me up to fall into the very fear-based narrative the matrix had been trying to pin on me for years. Since I had no real friends around me at the time and he was the sole person close enough to me to pull it off. It reinforced to me how important it is to be vigilant about who you choose to lie down with.

Fornication gives the enemy legal license to interfere in your life. It opens spiritual portals and permissions that cannot easily be undone. In my view, all narcissists are demonically possessed to varying degrees because of unresolved traumas they have allowed to fester, which the enemy uses to gain full access to their souls.

Discernment is Survival
Choosing who you allow into your body, mind, and spirit is not casual. It is survival. If you are awakening, targeted, or carrying a divine assignment, understand that your love life is a battleground. Discernment is your shield. Don't give the enemy the tools to bind you through lust, loneliness, or emotional weakness.

True love in the matrix does exist, despite the heavy warfare and deception surrounding relationships today. We should never allow the counterfeits and the pain of past experiences to harden our hearts or convince us otherwise. Love, when chosen through God and not through flesh, has the power to fulfill us, uplift us, and contribute to our spiritual expansion. A God-ordained relationship will not drain you; it will water you. It will not confuse you; it will bring clarity. When we allow God to select our partner, we align ourselves with someone who complements our purpose, strengthens our walk, and becomes a source of mutual growth and joy. Real love is worth waiting, praying, and preparing for. Wait for the one God has truly ordained, not the counterfeit sent to steal your crown.